Uncertainty on the road ahead

Is the road ahead uncertain? Great, be happy! Uncertainty means surprises, and if the path you're walking on isn't one full of surprises, you'll get bored! When you get bored, your life energy goes out! Walk in uncertainty, encounter new things just like an explorer and they will keep you energetic!                  

Embrace the uncertainty of the moment.

Be curious, not fearful - for only the curious discover.           

And what I know is, with uncertainty, there is never a dull moment. It is when you are confronted with uncertainty that you truly discover who

you are. In that space is where growth and innovation thrive and where you

learn that you are stronger and more resilient than you ever knew before. Soooo......... Trust the wait. Embrace the uncertainty. Enjoy the beauty of becoming. When nothing is certain, anything is possible.

Defending.... Just do it

Sometimes your chess pieces attack other pieces, and sometimes they defend. The defending part is the hardest because you have to be sure you have your facts and moves straight or else you will lose the game. In order for you to win, you must know exactly what your next move will be. In this natural life we stop defending ourselves and others because we are so afraid of where we would end up. So the next best thing for most people is to just keep your mouths closed, stay put and let the attacker win. 

How disheartening is that?

Study the next move to show yourself approved. #powerful_truth and #Biblical. People perish, because of a lack of knowledge #Biblical. Yet, many fail to do so.  

A LIFE IS LIVED LIKE A COURT CASE TRIAL. YOU END UP DEFENDING EVERY VALUE YOU EVER STOOD FOR

If I let what I hold true fall victim to a world that does not defend or says I am wrong for defending, I have then in that action surrendered to the voices of those who know nothing of the truth other than to destroy defenceless people and what they stand for. It takes years for someone to get to a place where they finally believe  that it's okay to defend when the timing is right and they should no longer be terrified. But if there’s one thing I should be terrified of it’s not the surrender itself, but the fact that in the surrender I have given the world permission to avoid the very thing that should be defended. 

YES TO ME

#confidence has never been my strong point. I have always been afraid. Never dressed up when invited to parties and never partook in any games when asked. 11/09/2022 was different. I said YES to dressing up and decided to dress up differently. I amazed myself and totally loved the confidence. 

The thing is, I was always scared of what people would say and think of me but I am the only person who can decide otherwise. I choose me. I say YES to me. 

You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do.

Don't let the expectations and opinions of other people affect your decisions. It's your life, not theirs. Do what matters most to you; do what makes you feel alive and happy. Don't let the expectations and ideas of others limit who you are. If you let others tell you who you are, you are living their reality — not yours. There is more to life than pleasing people. There is much more to life than following others' prescribed path. There is so much more to life than what you experience right now. You need to decide who you are for yourself. Become a whole being. 

ADVENTURE!!

WHAT I NOW KNOW AND ACT ON:

When someone tells me "no," it doesn't mean I can't do it, it simply means I can't do it with them.

No Need

Some days you are caught between opinions. You know which way but still you choose a way that won't and has never served you for many years.

Opinion is really the lowest form of human knowledge. It requires no accountability, no understanding.

The highest form of knowledge… is empathy, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another’s world. It requires profound purpose larger than the self kind of understanding.

You always own the option of having no opinion. There is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can't control. These things are not asking to be judged by you. Leave them alone.

REMEBER THIS:

If you fuel your journey on the opinions of others, you are going to run out of gas.

Discovering Me...

If there's one thing I love and sometimes hate at the same time, is being lost or feeling lost. It can cause so much confusion, not just in your own life but in the lives of your family and friends as well. 

One thing I'm definitely sure of is, where there's confusion a decision has to be made. Now you ask yourself "how do I make a decision? What if I make the wrong decision?" 

I've been here too many times. At a very young age I've had so many questions running through my head. That's when I started reading. I needed answers and I needed them now. The more I read, I discovered no matter what type of book you read, there's always something to learn. 

Discovering this, I actually learnt how to get rid of all confusion in my head and in my life.

I came across book called Alice in Wonderland written by Lewis Carroll, and she writes “One day Alice came to a fork in the road and saw a Cheshire cat in a tree. ‘Which road do I take?’ she asked. ‘Where do you want to go?’ was his response. ‘I don’t know,’ Alice answered. ‘Then,’ said the cat, ‘it doesn’t matter.”

How absolutely powerful and true is this? 

The point is, if you don't know where you're going, then it doesn't matter. It means your business, your family and even you will stay exactly where you are right now. When you get to a fork in the road, when confusion hits, you won't know what to do. 

This is why I love reading. I don't have to always rely on my own thoughts(which can lead me astray) and ideas. You might just find someone else's ideas very helpful. Isn't this the reason we write, read and can then make structured decision that will in turn benefit us? 

Don't ever let confusion overtake you. 

Read as much as you can and don't let anyone tell you, reading is dumb. It takes you to places you've never been before. It stirs feeling inside you and it makes choosing so much easier.