Discovering Me...

If there's one thing I love and sometimes hate at the same time, is being lost or feeling lost. It can cause so much confusion, not just in your own life but in the lives of your family and friends as well. 

One thing I'm definitely sure of is, where there's confusion a decision has to be made. Now you ask yourself "how do I make a decision? What if I make the wrong decision?" 

I've been here too many times. At a very young age I've had so many questions running through my head. That's when I started reading. I needed answers and I needed them now. The more I read, I discovered no matter what type of book you read, there's always something to learn. 

Discovering this, I actually learnt how to get rid of all confusion in my head and in my life.

I came across book called Alice in Wonderland written by Lewis Carroll, and she writes “One day Alice came to a fork in the road and saw a Cheshire cat in a tree. ‘Which road do I take?’ she asked. ‘Where do you want to go?’ was his response. ‘I don’t know,’ Alice answered. ‘Then,’ said the cat, ‘it doesn’t matter.”

How absolutely powerful and true is this? 

The point is, if you don't know where you're going, then it doesn't matter. It means your business, your family and even you will stay exactly where you are right now. When you get to a fork in the road, when confusion hits, you won't know what to do. 

This is why I love reading. I don't have to always rely on my own thoughts(which can lead me astray) and ideas. You might just find someone else's ideas very helpful. Isn't this the reason we write, read and can then make structured decision that will in turn benefit us? 

Don't ever let confusion overtake you. 

Read as much as you can and don't let anyone tell you, reading is dumb. It takes you to places you've never been before. It stirs feeling inside you and it makes choosing so much easier.